I am need of some advice. I am a birthmother. I have meet my son’s parents and have a good relationship. I have been careful to make sure they understand I love and respect them as his parents and that their son is very loved. I have open communication with them. Recently, my son has found his birthfather. His birthfather has contacted me and we have met and had some discussions etc. The birthfather has re-written history so to speak to make himself appear as a victim with alot of lies and garbage. He has not met my son yet. I did not share the details of my relationship with my birthson because I was hoping that he could meet his birthfather and have some type of healthy relationship, not based on our past history. My concern is the birthfathers lies, and manipulation he is already doing. Should I approach his birthparents with my concerns. I love my son and his family dearly and do not want to see them get hurt. Where should I set my boundaries and should I voice my concerns? I would appreciate any advice.
Posted in: Community Wisdom– June 24, 2013